The Year of The Cock!

Happy Lunar New Year! I am more than excited that it is The Year of The Cock. (Yes, I know Rooster but let's be real--Cock!)

I never liked calling the penis a dick. For me the word cock is more sexual in nature and let's face it there is nothing like a cocky guy cocksure of what he is packing underneath those grey sweatpants.

The first time I had my taste of a cock was when I was 18 years old. It was the summer before my senior year in high school. My birthday is in July and that year I started dating a older guy who was married to another guy. They both owned a local Ice Cream Cafe which my lesbian friend at the time (H) worked at. She introduced me to Chip and on my 18th birthday I was introduced orally to Chip's cock. After he shot his load he couldn't believe it was my first time. I guess I was born with it baby!



Who was your first cock!

DILF: Calum Best

Not sure Calum Best is a dad but he is a dude and yes I would love to have him fuck me.

I first saw Calum when I was hooked on Celebrity Big Brother UK. That was the strange nightmarish year Perez Hilton was on. Just realized this was two years ago and I was just about to leave Korea. Anyway.

Calum Best is HOT! Like the kinda HOT that you can feel your anus puckering, or (as my co-worker says pussy tightening) when you see him in a room or on TV or etc. 

Calum recently had a nude leak scandal. Not going to publish the nudes here because you can google them but let's say he gets his confidence honestly. Not BBC (and no I am not talking about the British Broadcasting Channel) big but definitely in Porn Penis territory. (I swear I am not a size queen. But big penuses are pretty!)

Here's to you Mr. Best!

Can Sex Be Spiritual?

I talk a lot about sex so when I discuss my spiritual side many think I am joking. I am a very spiritual person. Not religious (though I have been that as well) but I have a sense of God and forces outside of myself. However being raised in Christian Reich Country aka The Bible Belt of the USA, I was taught by many that sex for pleasure was unnatural, that it was only for procreation. As I got older and shed those beliefs, I fully embraced the secular, pleasurable side of fucking. I have had the kinda sex that was orgasmic beyond what could be imaginable to my young adult angst but on the other side of that I have wondered if sex could be spiritual. If a connection to cosmic forces (God) and moments of enlightenment could occur with the proper person(s).

Tantric sex is often talked about when sexuality does turn spiritual but tantric sex has always had an aura of exercise to it. Yes great sex is envigorating but should it be equated to a work out at the local gym? No! At least not to me.  The Kama Sutra also shouts of yogic training. I never found those pictures erotic or pleasing. This is something I will continue to meditate on as long as I am here on this realm.

Have you ever had spiritual sex?