One of the great things about online dating for gay men is the safety of it all. Mostly! (I am looking at you South Korea's Military.) But when the trade off for safety from the outside world becomes sexualized bullying in cyberspace, what are the solutions?
Chappy is a dating app that is designed to take away the bigotry that grows in insular, gay, online communities. (Even Growlr is guilty of this--though not as bad as Grindr.)
I tried it out and so far so good. I haven't been on a date, yet. The pool of guys is not as deep as some of the other apps but hopefully that will change.
Not to say that Grinder, Growlr, Jack'd, etc. are all bad. If you are still looking for a good time. (Fucking.) Those apps are the place to be and get off. But if you are looking for more, Chappy seems to fill that mostly empty niche.
How do you deal with online dating discrimination?
