One Night Stand: Stay With Me Sam Smith

I am very familiar with one night stands, hook-ups, Grindr tricking, or whatever euphemism you want to use to describe having sex with a complete stranger and then really not seeing them ever again. I have said this before, I don't equate sex with intimacy. To me getting fucked or fucking isn't the same as holding hands with your person. Sex can lead to intimacy and it can lead to relationships but mostly it doesn't.

I like Sam Smith's song about how sometimes, even if you are as jaded as I am when it comes Grindr tricking, you might want more than an physical connection to the person you just nutted with. But I have also experienced the opposite of that feeling. When you wake up and the guy next to you is a complete melter who you want to kick out as soon as the hangover allows you to.

So that is why I am posting both videos The original and a parody starring Looking's David Franzese. Hope you enjoy.